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Respect Gap Quiz

Answer 6 quick questions about your recurring conflict and see your Respect Gap score, plus the top pattern behind it.

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1. I catch myself correcting or criticizing him more than I mean to.

Rarely Sometimes Often

2. When we disagree, he goes quiet instead of talking it through.

Rarely Sometimes Often

3. It feels like other things come before me more than they used to.

Rarely Sometimes Often

4. We've drifted a little, both emotionally and physically.

Rarely Sometimes Often

5. I forget to acknowledge the things he actually does right.

Rarely Sometimes Often

6. Small things I ask for get brushed off or forgotten.

Rarely Sometimes Often

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