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Not Sure If He's Pulling Away Or Just Busy?

You can reread the same text ten times and still not know what he's actually feeling. Six quick questions about how he acts — not what he says — score how strongly his 'hero instinct' is engaged right now, and which signal to watch for next.

1. He asks for my opinion or help, even with small things.
2. He visibly lights up when I notice or praise something he did.
3. He goes a little out of his way to make sure I'm okay.
4. He brings up plans or ideas that include me down the road.
5. When he says he will do something for me, he follows through.
6. He seems to want my reaction or approval after he does something.
One quick question first: Where are things with him right now?

Answer 6 quick questions about his behavior and get your Hero Instinct signal score — plus what it usually means, plus The Appreciation Guide.

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Best for: Women who want to understand a specific man's behavior, not manipulate it Not for: Anyone in a relationship involving control or fear — please talk to a licensed professional instead